Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Can't Make Any Promises

It's been too long, I know. Can't promise I'll be better. Just so very, very busy.
busy, but happy.

Here's what you want to see anyway, the good looking people:






More good looking people:
My neice Katie and her husband Jeff, who came out to visit while Jeff interviewed at Pitt Med. How much do I want them to move here? A lot.

These lovely peeps entertained our children for 3 days while I sat on the couch eating, sleeping, drooling, etc.
They also may have experienced what my family calls "Evil Sleep-Kate," a persona I take on when I fall asleep before everyone else and then get awakened suddenly. Involves loud voice, confusion, reprimanding, occasional throwing of pillows. I am so ashamed. . .

And in case you're interested, my recent thoughts:

Caleb is on week 5 of surgery right now. I see him for minutes a day. That is dumb. But those minutes are really nice. He provides me with his daily anecdotes just before heading to bed. Best yet: the crochety surgeon who stood up for him, mid-surgery, when the scrub tech called him "Kah-leeb," by shouting, "It's CALEB! Don't you read the damn bible?"

Malan going to school has been a real beating for me. Four weeks in and I think I'm almost handling it. It was rough on her, too. We're tight, people! But she's a superstar and wakes up most days now really excited to go, which means I can be good with it, too. Why didn't anyone tell me it would be so tough? I mean it, I want answers.

Jane has taken to getting herself nose to nose with every adult she comes in contact with- including teachers, parents, and my friends- taking their faces in her hands, and saying with awe-struck sincerity, "You're beautiful!" Never fails to get a positive response.

Olivia thinks we share a liver. She codes if she is detached from my lap or hip for more than a few minutes during waking hours. Good thing she's stinking adorable.

Well, there you go. Thanks for keeping us posted even when I fail to reciprocate, it means a lot.

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Malan Starts School

I knew this week had to come, and though I am so excited for Malan and her new adventure, I won't pretend I'm being brave about it. My heart is breaking a little.

But we tried to make the most of our last few days of freedom:

We had one last "not a school night" sleepover in a blanket fort:


Then a special mommy date last night. We found a ceramic studio and Malan chose a butterfly to paint. Oh my, it was beautiful! Her creativity inspires me, and I'm happy about the fact that her little legs still don't reach the floor in a big person chair.

Today the morning came, though I woke up in the still-darkness and wished it wouldn't. Looks like she's ready to go, though, doesn't it?
Here comes the bus! Squeeze tight before you leave, sis!
Last wave, and she's off. Remind me why I'm not home-schooling?

I am so thrilled for you Malan. You can do anything. You are sweet and smart and tenderhearted and just perfect. I'm so happy to see you off to learn and grow and succeed. But all day is just a long time apart, don't you think? We miss you.

I must say I held things together pretty well and gave Malan dry eyes and a smile as she left.

Then I had an ugly cry over my bowl of frosted mini wheats when I got home.

Jane, Liv, and I had a sweet day together and, wow, time to go pick Malan up from the bus already. You bet I'm going to squeeze her so tight!